Hello my dear friends
I hope your Valentine's day is going amazingly well.
Do fasten your seat belts as tight as possible. Your life's jet is going to bear a little turbulence in the next few minutes.
Dear friends, I have no idea, if you have read any of my previous posts or not? If you have liked the way I write or not? But I personally request you to please give a read to this post. It won't take much of your time but be sure it will help you throughout your life and will make you understand that "Valentine's day is not only meant for....".
Without wasting much time bragging about what I have told you in my previous blog post, I would just start with this. I know, no one of you is free in your lives. It's Valentine's day and all of you have to meet your partners, give them hugs and kisses. Well, is there anything else we can do??
Let me start the post with a quote from the renowned novelist Jane Austen
" You pierce my soul. I am half agony, half hope "
As the editor, Reader's digest @Sanghmitra ma'am says,
"Love can be a beautiful place - sometimes soft and misty like a Monet painting; flaming and intense at other times. But it's always powerful and sublime, like a musical sonata".
Life is good if you are single, but it is better if you are committed. No matter, if you have found the princess of your dreams or the prince? No matter, if have tasted the tastiest fruit named 'Love' any before? No matter, if you have traveled in the most adventurous ship - 'the relationSHIP' ever before? What actually matters is, whether you are understanding the essence of Love, or not?
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I have been in a relationship for 4 short long years and I know it very well, how does it feel when there's someone who loves you and to cares for you. How does it feel when there is someone who is always ready to help you no matter how busy she or he is, who is there to support you even when the entire world has already left your hand, who always put a smile on your face no matter how bad you are feeling.
My dear friends whatever I have told you above or what I am going to tell you now, would be of no use if you still haven't understood what actually 'True love' is? Come on friends, you are celebrating 'Valentine's day and I really expect that your concepts of 'True love' and 'so-called true love' are very clear. I really want you to know the difference between 'True love' and 'attraction'. I also hope that you guys are seriously dating and not celebrating this day only because of the juiciest fruit you are going to get. Or even if you are still not aware of 'what the heck is this true love'. Do read this True love or else I request you to please close the tab. You would get nothing reading this if you still don't know what true love is and how divine it is.
Now as I have told you, what does a relationship mean and how serene it is. But one moment my dear friends. It is not as easy as you all are thinking. I want to tell you, if there are 50 goods of being in a relationship then there are always 49 bads ( or should I say 51). The same valid with the happiness and sadness, the moments of laughter and the tears, the nights worth remembering, and the sleepless ones. If any of your friends are in a relationship and you think that he or she is living a wonderful and absolutely amazing life, let me correct you, my friend, what you are thinking is absolutely imaginary and is not having any correlation with reality.
That's why if you are not committed if there is no one in your life with whom you can celebrate this day if you are single. No need to worry my dear friends. In fact, I assure you, no one in this world is happier than you. Being in a relationship is good and it feels amazing. But if you are willing to face so many fights and unnecessary sorrows in life, then only do opt for it.
Religious extremism on Valentine's day:
Dinesh used to be a very good friend of mine. I remember the last time I met him, and he was so delightful. He told me, "he is in a serious relationship for the last 3 years. And it is going amazingly well for them. Both of them have decided to marry, both of them have decided to be together forever and ever. As Dinesh kept talking, I noticed the true love for Shreya was clearly visible in his eyes. He told me that Shreya was his branch mate. She was also pursuing MBBS". We shook hands and he went. ( Changed names. Any correlation with the names is Purely fictitious. )
Yesterday, I read a piece of news that trembled my heart and broke it into pieces. The news was titled "Man beaten to death on Valentine day. Religious extremism involved". I cried my heart off. I cried for the loopholes in the system due to which some people are doing this horrible violence with some innocent hearts.
I have a few questions. And I would like to get the answers from your side in the comments section below:
1. Is it wrong to walk in a garden with your partner, holding each other's hands and talking love?
2. Who gave the right to the people who are doing this kind of violent act with these innocent hearts?
3. Can't we celebrate the festival of love with our partners, with the love of our lives?
( I am asking all the above questions keeping all the laws and judicial obligations in mind )
Anyone, please don't try to teach me the law. I know it well.
You may find me arrogant this time. Yeah, I am arrogant my dear friends. I have been tired of seeing these kinds of activities in our societies for a long time. A group of people taking religious advantage are making fun of other people's lives. You have no right to disturb any person or any couple on Valentine's day and teaching them that they are doing against the culture. You have no right to bound people in boundaries. It is their lives and they have the right to roam freely, enjoy fearlessly and live peacefully. Who the hell are you to teach them what's right or what's not?
( I sincerely expect from the couples also to take care of some of the things and don't cross a certain boundary when you are in an atmosphere where you aren't alone ).
Is Valentine's day only meant for getting physical with our partners?
One more thing which I have noticed a lot nowadays and especially in young minds. I want to clear you all that Valentine's day is not only meant for getting physical with your partners, neither a relationship means it. There are so many ways in which couples celebrate the festival of love. I have heard hundreds of people and many of my friends saying things like 'Valentine's day is only meant for sex, in fact, there are some memes also which are telling that after 9 months on the 14th November, it's children's day. Do I need to elaborate on it anymore? Guys, my humble request to all those who think the same, please stop doing making these kinds of pathetic comments on couples or an individual. You haven't fallen in true love any before that's why you keep on talking the same trash. The day you would fall in love will be the day when you will understand that Relationships or Valentine's day are not only meant for getting physical. Getting physical is just a fundamental part of relationships and there are way more beautiful things in a relationship. I honestly want to request all those innocent minds to bring some maturity and use their wisdom before talking anything like this. Stop hurting others by saying these kinds of things, stop making fun of others and last but not least stop being so careless about the sentiments of others. The day you would come into a relationship, you'll definitely regret it.
My dear friends these two things were pinching my heart for a long time and I couldn't have gotten any better day to explain and put my points. I hope, you all would be agree with me. I am pretty sure, 'the day these two things will be out of the minds of people, the positive change would start taking place and that would be serenity which everyone seeks for'.
Alright, let me write a few words for my partner as a Valentine day gift:
Girl, you are my love and you will forever be. You are the biggest blessing that Almighty has showered on me and I would be grateful to him for the entire life. Girl, you are the one behind all my successes, you are the answer to all my questions, you are the coolest shade in the hottest environment. I just can't explain how much I love you and how much I adore you. The day you sparkled the colors in my pale life, the day you first tell me ' I love you' was the end of all my worries and tough periods in life. Thereafter I have got all the pleasures in life, which I once sought for. You have been the 'shining one' in a billion and I promise you I would give you the love and care like 'one in a trillion'. From today onwards, I promise you I would never hurt you. You have chosen me as the Prince of your dreams and I assure you I will always treat you like the Princess of heaven.
Kisses and hugs.
Happy Valentine's day.
Be mine forever.
Alright dear friends
Thanks a ton for giving a read.
I wish you all the love and happiness in your lives.
I hope you have liked all the content which I have posted in Valentine's week and it has helped you to get the best out of your relationship. Even if you haven't gotten any results, no need to worry I am always with you and would give you my best support and help at every moment. It's the end of Valentine's week only, not the end of life.
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