Do you want to make your 'Valentine's Week' more special ?

Hello dear friends 

Hope you all are doing very fine.

In this post :

• I am going to tell you the plannings which you need to do and the things on which you need to work on, before Valentine's week to make this week special for your partner and for you as well. If you are already committed or if you are going to propose to someone this time. Trust me, you won’t get a better opportunity and perfect time than this.             

So... fasten your seatbelts properly, this journey is going to be a little bumpier 😉

In my previous blog post: 

I had written a poem for the one, who’s neither my mother nor my better half but loves me the same way as they do. She always stands with me, no matter how much annoying I have been to her, I have hurt her and I have made fun of her. She’s no other than my Sister. Most of the time we get so much busy in our lives that we completely forget how much she is important in our lives and how much she has contributed to any of the success we have achieved to date.

Here is a link for the previous blog post Poem for Sister

The first and foremost question which arises at this moment is:

What’s love?  

I have already discussed it very deeply, in my earlier blog post. Do check it here What is love?

Without having a proper idea about it and without getting over the difference between 'Love' and 'Attraction', it wouldn't be of any use to celebrate this week with your special one.
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Now, hope you all have a good idea about what love is and how does it differ from attraction? As you all know, Valentine's week is just around the corner. Let us all make this valentine’s week special, even if you don’t have a partner to celebrate it with. Let us all understand as the tag line says- ‘The abcd of love’. I genuinely think there couldn’t be a better time than this - to feel love, give love, and the most important “to be loved”.

Let us quickly come on things and plannings which you need to do and you need to work on, to make this Valentine's week -' the most memorable one' for you and your partner as well.

1.  Once again ask yourself.

Ask yourself and also to your partner – are you really comfortable spending your entire life together? Well, this might sound a little weird but it’s true my friend. It’s better to make things clear before moving forward.

Ask a few questions to yourself:

                                                                                                        

•     Will, you still remain with her ( WELL I AM GOING TO USE ‘HER’ Every time, IT IS OBVIOUS TO READ IT ‘HIM’ IF YOU ARE A GIRL) even if she would say you 'a big No' to come closer for a minimum period of 1 month? Actually, this question will clear you if you are with her only for the amazing sex she gives you and only to quench your thirst of cuddling and moaning in bed.
•     Ask yourself if you are going to be with her, no matter how much she is hurting you ( If she is hurting you, it definitely doesn’t mean she is cheating you).
•      Ask your girl, if she is going to accept your female friends in the coming time? ( Most people think female friends can also be called girlfriends, I would just tell them that 'they can also be called an Idiot') 🙂
•       Ask yourself if you trust her truly and does she the same?

2.  List all the things that she likes.

As the book MEN ARE FROM MARS AND WOMEN ARE FROM VENUS says, if you are doing a small favor like just helping her cleaning her cupboard or if you are doing something really big for her like gifting her a piece of expensive jewelry. She would give almost the same priority to both of them. I find this a little dubious but after implementing it on my girlfriend only, I found that it’s true.

So, even if you are making the smallest kind gesture for her, it would really make a large impact.

Few things which you can do, as far as my experience says:

•         Tell her 'you're beautiful'. Even if you have already told her a hundred times, do it again.
•       Tell her, how much you love her, how much she means to you with a genuine expression on your face (Girls easily catch your body language).
•        Remember the important dates of your relationship

                 

    3. Prepare a poem and a soulful song especially for her. ( Even if you are not a good poet or singer at all. Your girl would always love it. )

     Writing doesn’t need much effort ( actually it do 😅). Just sit, get a pen and paper and ( For God’s sake, don’t draw the useless most easy scenery consisting of few flying birds, a river flowing and a Sun rising between the two mountains ) write all the things you like about her. That’s it. You have made a poem for her. She would definitely be happy. 

     

    You can check my Instagram Account for various poem samples especially written for a girlfriend. 

     Sing the love songs which would definitely make her fall for you.

     You can check some amazing love songs here Love songs for girlfriend

4. Cook something especially for her ( Maggi would obviously not be a good option ).

Girls like it when you cook for them provided that the food should at least look like it is Food 😀

     5. Visit the places where you used to visit in the very beginning days of your relationship. 

       Remember the good old memories together.

    

      6. Try something new this year, which you have you have never tried before.

  No, I am not talking about a new position. Well actually, you can try it, it is not a bad idea.😅

7. Plan a surprise that would amaze her and make her happy at the same time.

  Have you ever participated in ‘Treasure Hunt? If you have no idea about it, visit the Treasure hunt game

  What you have to do, is to plan a treasure hunt for her. You can hide the clues with loving messages written on them. It would be so much fun and excitement at the same time.

8. Don’t be overly excited on the very first day only. 

   You would end up with nothing left for further days.

9. Gift her and plan for her something unique, which would always remain close to her heart.

10. Last but not least. Once again ask yourself :

‘Is she actually the girl of your dreams, would she be the permanent girl forever and ever’? You have got one more chance. Think once again, else all your efforts which you have made in the above 8 steps might go in vain.

Hey, are you there?

Thank you so much if you are :)

I hope you have got an idea about how to make this valentine’s week special for your partner.

If you are seriously planning to propose a girl or if you are already in a relationship, then do keep the above points in mind and follow them to raise your chances of being accepted.

Well, there is still 1 day left before valentine’s week, you have got sufficient time to work on things and make the plans.

In the next post :

I will see you all on ‘Rose day’ with some amazing content and tips to make you extract the best out of 'Rose day' and 'Propose day'. 

Hope you all had a great time reading it.


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Bye-bye then
Loads of love
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