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Hello beautiful people

Hope you all are doing fantastically well.

It's the 4th day of 'Valentine's week', and I hope that your week is going accordingly to the plan. I hope that you all have succeeded in impressing your partners and making them feel like you are 'The Prince of her dreams' and vice versa. I hope that you have been successful in giving your partners, 'the best happiness and the best care'. And ultimately you must do. Because, this is the season of love, this is the festival of love and no time could be better than this, 'to celebrate love'. The way we celebrate, various other festivals, the same way we should celebrate this season of love. 

In my previous blog post:

• I had tried to answer one of the most difficult questions on 'Love and relationships'.
• I had told you the reasons behind, why we all want to be loved but don't want to give love.
• I had explained that nothing big is achieved, without giving any efforts from your side. How can you expect somebody to love you if you are not willing to give your love a bit?

In this blog post:

As you all are concerned, today is 'Promise day'. In my opinion, this day is the best day of the entire Valentine's week. The foremost reason is, this is the day that is not meant for any materialistic purpose. You do not have to give any materialistic loving things like chocolate, a rose, a teddy, etc to your partner. You just need to make some really loving, genuine promises to your partner with all your heart. ( Well, Hug day and Kiss day are totally different sides of love's coin. Don't even dare to compare Promise day with these days ).

Let me first ask you a simple question (Well. not that simple ). 

What do you mean by making a Promise?

Well, the simple answer may be, it is simply an oath or affirmation which needs not be broken in the future, irrespective of any worst situation. If you are doing a promise with someone and breaking it after some time, then it is not called a promise my friend, it is called a 'false promise'. There is no means of making a promise which you are going to break later. Nowadays making false promises has become a regular habit of most of us. Every now and then, we are making promises and breaking them so carelessly. My friend, a promise is a word that is one of the most strong building blocks in any relationship. 'Promise' itself is a very beautiful word one could ever imagine. I have no idea, why we all are not understanding the essence of it.

Promises are not meant to be broken. If you are going to break it, please do a favor to the specific person for not calling it 'a a promise'. There would be no wrong in not standing on what you said once ( actually it is wrong ), but there is so much wrong in not standing with your promise. The person to whom you are making the promise, it is like you are tying a tight knot with an intangible string to their hearts. The moment you are breaking the promise is the moment you are breaking that string also. Keep in mind that you are not delicately untying the knot but you are breaking it by force, which is going to harm you and that person also. 

                                                            

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The cases as I discussed above, become more serious, petrifying, and destructive when you are breaking promises in your relationship.

Always keep all the above-mentioned points in your mind and do remember to not using the word 'Promise', if you are not going to stand with it.

Extracting the best out of  'Promise day' :

Now, I am very sure that no one of you is going to make any false promises to your partner.

You must be thinking, 'making any false promise comes later, first, we need to make any promise for it'. Don't worry my friend, I will give you the best help on this Promise day and this is going to be the best 'Promise day' for you.

One more thing which you need to keep in mind is, you need not make too many promises. Yes, you heard it right. Don't take too many promises that you don't even remember to follow them. Even if you are making a single promise, it is also absolutely fine. What matters is, if you are doing your best to follow it or not. 

Today, you can make many promises to your partner thinking she would be happier, she would give you more priority, she would find you more loving and caring. But I am telling you my dear friend, all that happiness, love, care, and priority would go in the trash the very next day if you wouldn't follow any one of them.

5 Promises to make to your girlfriend ( or boyfriend ): 

01. I would always stand by your side, no matter how tough the situation would be. I would always support you, no matter how much off the track you would be going. I would never hurt you intentionally. Neither I would let anyone hurt you even to the smallest level.

02. I would never leave your hand. No matter, how much my hand would be hurt. If I am holding your hand today, I assure you that I won't leave it ever at least in this life. I would always stand in front of you as a bulletproof wall and will protect you from any kind of disturbance, ups and downs, and problems.

03. I would never do anything which I couldn't do in front of you. Be it talking to any other girl or meeting someone. I am not saying that I won't talk to anyone else, neither I am saying that I will not catch up with my friends. But I want to tell you that, I won't do anything which I can't do in front of you.

04. I would never disrespect you. I would always give you the best respect I give to my Mom-Dad. No matter obnoxious I would be, no matter how much you have hurt me, no matter if you'll be listening to me or not. I will always respect you and your opinions.

05. I would always love you. I would always love you to the moon and back. I would always pray for your happiness and good health. I would always put you on the top priority. I would try my best to fulfill all your wishes and give you everything in this life which you ever wished. I would give my best to become the 'Prince of your dreams' forever and ever.

Hey beautiful people

I hope that I have given you a little clue on how to make this 'Promise day', the most memorable for you and your partner.

Just keep in mind that, don't even dare to make false promises with your partner. It would only sabotage your relationship.

I'll see you on, 'Valentine's day' and we will celebrate the festival of Love together, in the best way you have ever celebrated.💓

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Goodbye

Loads of love

Take care

PS: On this promise day, I promise you all that I will always give my best to resolve all your 'Relationship', 'Love life' and 'Personality' related issues.

PSS: Stay safe, stay happy and keep your nerves in control on 'Hug day' and 'Kiss day'.😉